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At the Edge of the Bahamas, Ready for The Next Big Leap: A Day in the Life of Moxie
4/19/2017Hud and Trav speared these two lobsters and we grilled them for dinner. YUM. Believe it or not, I like Bahamian lobster better than Maine lobster. |
Goofing around in the pristine water at Lee Stocking Cay, Exuma. |
We hiked the tallest peak in the Exumas! It was 125 feet high. |
When you've climbed such distances, to such astounding heights, you really need to pause (for oxygen) and observe your surroundings. |
Cuties on the bench in Georgetown, Exuma |
Hud speared all of these fish, then cleaned them for our dinner. He was extremely proud. |
Trav cleaned out the bilge and found all kinds of goodies, including that VHF radio. |
Hud rappelling down to the dinghy at low tide. It was quite the distance, actually. Viv did it, too! I chickened out and they picked me up on the beach. |
It was so much fun to catch up with Telluride friends on their spring break at Long Island. |
Plan B for our beach day- we spent the afternoon in this empty grandstand, eating lunch and reading out loud. |
Kneeboarding, kneeboarding, kneeboarding, EVERY DAY! |
Sailboat life ain't all cupcakes and rainbows! Here are the kids huddling under their life jackets in the pouring rain while they wait for us to get back from a grocery store run. |
Easter eggs, baby! |
Our Easter decor |
Moog Power kneeboarding! |
Happy Hud the dinghy captain |
On the beach on Easter Sunday. |
Egg in a spoon races on Easter. |
Victory! |
Moxie dog |
In Hamilton Cave, the largest cave in the Bahamas. |
Hud jumps from the cliff at Dean's Blue Hole, the deepest blue hole in the world! |
At the mini-regatta! Only 3 boats competed and the whole thing took about 40 minutes, but we were at the edge of our seats! I'd watch a regatta any day, any time. It was super fun. |
Twin beauties in the weeds. |
So when we aren't zipping around on a kneeboard, communing with nature or eating Pop Tarts, what are we doing these days, you may ask? Here's what a typical day in the life of Moxie looks like (when we're on anchor, not sailing):
2 am Trav wakes up and checks everything on the boat.
3 am Jen gets up to pee and counts the children (yes, I literally count them, it's an obsessive compulsive thing).
4 am Trav gets up and checks the boat or closes hatches because it has started to rain.
6 am Trav gets up to listen to Chris Parker's weather report. Chris Parker is the ultimate weather guru for sailors. If you subscribe to his service, you can ask him questions about things and he will tell you what to do, and he is never wrong. Chris Parker is brilliant, and a celebrity, and if I ever meet him I will be totally awkward and star struck.
7 am Everyone else gets up.
7:30 am Either Travis or Hud & Viv take Sadie to the beach to pee and run around
8 am Breakfast. If we're feeling ambitious this could be French Toast or Breakfast Burritos. If we're not so spunky, it's Cheerios with bananas on top. But often, we have no bananas, so it's just Cheerios.
8:30 am Jen cleans the cabin, wipes down all surfaces and sweeps the floor. The kids make their beds. Then Jen re-makes their beds. This drives Trav insane.
9 am Jen works out for 30 minutes on the deck. (Sometimes I run if we're in a good spot for that, but usually I do a Box Canyon Booty type workout but way, WAY easier because I do not have Megan and Dodi standing over me to make sure I'm not cheating).
9:30 BOATSCHOOLING begins. Ok, I should probably write an entire post about boatschooling because it's been such a wonderful/hard/exciting/frustrating/awesome experience, but for now I'll just tell you that teaching your children can be extremely fulfilling, and not as hard as you think it might be. Our schooling includes the Bridges Math program that was so expertly prepared for us by Amy Vanderbosch of the Telluride School District, reading great books, writing in journals, writing poetry and stories, researching things that surround us (like maps, sharks, and seashells) and writing about them, and talking about things that interest us. I cover grammar, spelling, and vocabulary in our writing and reading. It takes about 2 hours a day, and we've been averaging 4 days a week. (But if kids from another boat come knocking on the hull and want to play, then we forget about school. Priorities!) I feel good about what and how my children are learning. Both of them can look any adult in the eye now and have a solid conversation. Both of them can drive the boat, tie knots, and understand basic concepts of navigation. Hud can make fish tacos and Viv is learning to sew.
And then... there's the crown jewel of our boatschooling: UKELELE!!! Viv is getting there- she can play "You are My Sunshine" and has almost mastered the tricky G chord. But Hud can REALLY play. His repertoire ranges from 21 Pilots to Elvis, and at the risk of sounding like a braggy stage Mom (I know what those are like) I think he has real talent.
11:30 am - 5 pm Jen packs up a picnic and the crew hops in the dinghy for an adventure (like snorkeling, exploring, playing on the beach, hanging out with friends we meet, grocery shopping, getting water, fishing, checking out a new town, etc), OR we stay on the boat and do projects (I clean things that are dirty and Trav fixes things that are broken). Every day is different. If the weather is bad we read out loud to the kids for HOURS ON END. Reading is a huge part of our lives these days. Right now, between the 4 of us, we are reading about 10 books. I am reading "Little House in the Big Woods" and "Maida's Little Shop" to Viv. I am reading "A Wrinkle In Time" to Hud and Viv, and Trav is reading "The Cay" to them. Before that Trav read them "The Story of Helen Keller" and we were all riveted. Hudson just finished reading a book about the San Francisco Fire of to Viv and he is also reading her "Chocolate Fever" and "SuperFudge". Viv is proudly reading chapter books and is reading me a really juicy Nancy Drew right now. And at night, in those 20 minutes between when the kids fall asleep and I fall asleep, I read. I've read more in the past 8 months than I have in the last 18 years since grad school, and Trav is a reading like house on fire. In fact, Trav and I have started our own book club! We've read "The Scavenger's Guide to Haute Cuisine" (Thank you, James!) and "Papillion". When we both finish the assigned book, we schedule a time to meet, eat snacks, and discuss it. With our varied busy schedules, this can be a challenge. (That was a joke).
6 pm Dinner. Sometimes we go out, if the restaurant is interesting and worth it. We are on a budget, though, so we try to eat on the boat as much as possible. A staple of our diet is the infamous "BEAN BOWL": rice, beans, sauteed veggies. It sounds boring as hell, I know, but I've actually found ways of varying it just enough so you don't want to jump overboard every time it is served. We eat fish that the guys catch (Trav made the BEST conch chowder the other day!), and often we eat total crap (see photo, above).
7 pm We play games (lots of games), occasionally watch a movie on our lap top, and read out loud. Sometimes we make fires on the beach or stay late visiting friends. But usually by 8:30 or 9 we are...
9 pm dead tired and asleep.
Tomorrow we begin sailing again. Our hope is that by end of next week, we will be much further south, closer to our goal of the Dominican Republic, where we just might stay for the hurricane season. But, as I've told you, we can have no solid plans. In closing, I'll describe our situation with a really profound haiku:
Living on Moxie
The wind tells us where we go
That can get boring
Thanks for reading! xoxo
4 comments
Riveting and inspiring as ever! The reading part is special when you think of the amount of digital distractions that tempt on the mainland. Thanks for taking the time to share your adventures Moxie crew! You all look great 😊
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your kind words and for reading, Jamie!!! I really live writing, it helps me process it all. Hugs to you guys!
DeleteI am shouting at you from afar... No CHEATING! haha jk. Seriously, want me to email you some beach-friendly workouts? WE MISS YOU!!!! And way to keep working out. That's so impressive! I'm sure it keeps you sane. Keep it up, sister! <3
ReplyDeleteI miss you, Dodi! I miss the comraderie of Booties, I miss the strength, smarts, honesty and fun you bring to it. Alas, most of my working out is done in a TINY space on the deck, not the beach. I do planks, burpees, grasshoppers, mtn climbers, lunges, squats, and ab stuff. But if you have any suggestions for a tiny space workout, YES PLEASE. xo
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